Here's the big update
The office was nice, intimate and private.
The first thing we were handed was our "hope" workbook and Dr. Potter's book "what to do when you can't get pregnant" I'm not sure if the title was some sick twist on what to expect when your expecting? But I took it with stride and chose a seat thinking I cant believe I'm in this place.
We sat in the waiting room about 15 minutes. Long enough for hubby to fiddle with the high tech coffee maker and for me to flip through the book. To be honest I haven't even looked through our work book yet because I'm still in "sticker shock" but I'll get to that later.
Earlier in the day I stumbled on to Yelp reviews of the facility and the Dr I was about to see. I thought Yelp was only for food! There was some good bad and ugly, but for the most part I felt it made be better prepared. I chalk up the reviews to some people need to be coddled and sugar coated while others like myself want the more direct approach.
Dr Potter was the perfect amount of straight forward while still maintaining sensitivity. He started out by asking for my medical history in my own words. Of course in my own sarcastic way to defuse awkwardness I answered "I like sunsets and walks on the beach". I got the desired chuckle and proceeded to run down my issues in 3 minutes or less. He listened as he flipped through my records and made notes. To my relief he told me that my old Dr Wood was on the right path by prescribing the metformin, that most Dr's are not comfortable dealing with my problem because they just didn't know enough about it. I was really bummed out when Dr Wood retired and I got passed on to Dr Garcia. I felt like Dr Garcia didn't really care to work with me, especially when I asked if my met could be increased and she looked at me like I was crazy. And now Dr Potter is telling me that not only should it be increased, I need to be taking 3 times the amount. He also shed some light on insulin resistance and how some cultures are more genetically predisposed to it. He told me that I need to be on the Paleolithic diet, like a hunter/gatherer eating small animals (his words), green veggies, nuts and berries. He also brought up that people didn't hoard the food they found all day till 5pm and sit down to a big feast, they ate as the went. Eating wasn't easy, it was out of necessity. He said if I worked really hard at this new diet, increased my exercise with my new meds the weight should fall off more easily. I found this all very interesting. He was so exuberant about it.
We talked a little more about our concerns. And here is the bottom line.
Can he get us pregnant?
Yes, he believes with in 3 IUI treatments we can have success.
Does he recommend IUI over IVF?
We won't be able to tell our direct path until we get all the blood work and tests back. If its as simple as I just don't ovulate with no added issues IUI is definitely the way to go. But if we find there's stacked issues we wont waste time and go straight to IVF. Time will tell.
Do I have to drop 100 lbs before we start?
No, while I do have to lose some its not as drastic as I thought. We can start as early as the next 2 months. I need to get off my current meds so he can test my hormone levels and check out my liver before I start the new scrip.
He was very nice, I didn't feel like the brush off and no question was stupid. It was really nice that he was familiar with everything I asked about and had a logical answer to everything. So after the run down he wrote out all the details of what he wanted tested and when, then we got to sit with his assistant. She gave us all the test prices and here is where the sticker shock comes in.
Tests include but are not limited to:
Ultrasound to check if my tubes are open $243
Sonohysterogram (say that 5 times fast) to check my uterus and egg count $500
Mock Transfer (I don't know what this is) $145
Hormone Tests 5X $63
And now the state of CA is requiring infectious decease screening for $200 X2 for me and Hubs.
And then we have to get the guys counted for $220
Anybody have a calculator? That's about $1900 out of pocket if I can't get insurance to pay for it. (remember I still have to choose a new insurance too)
And it's all so time sensitive, each thing happens on a specific cycle day. The nurse was kind of pushing that we start in Feb. But its just to soon. It's so much to wrap my brain around, I've waited this long 2 more months are not going to kill me.
In the mean time its fun to go to restaurants and order "large animals with a side of carbs"